Confession Time


Confession Time


Confession time guys.  I’ve got two fantastically amazing children.  A 4 year old girl, and a 2 year old boy.  We’re done.  That’s it.  So blessed to have one of each.

But … am I done?

My husband and I have decided not to continue having children for many reasons:

  1. We’re happy with our two
  2. We have a boy AND a girl (not a pre-requisite, but we can tick that box)
  3. We live comfortably financially.  JUST.  If we had another, it would be a huge financial strain.
  4. We’d have to upgrade the car (money)
  5. I have post natal depression – will that get worse?
  6. I like my sleep
  7. I disliked the newborn state
  8. Pregnancy wasn’t for me

And the list goes on …

But GEES my hormones have kicked into over drive and the last few weeks I’ve had dreams of being pregnant.  I’m plagued by thoughts of having a THIRD child.  WTF?!

Hormones are powerful!  And the urge to have another kid can be overwhelming.  To the point where I can’t stop thinking about it.  The other day I woke up and was disappointed I wasn’t pregnant … HAHAHA #awkward

My husband and I talk about everything, so he knows how I feel.

Have any of you felt like this?  Did the feelings go away eventually?  Or did you just have another (haha) … ?


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